| Updated: Fri, Nov 09 2:03 PM EST |
By Suzanne Rostler
NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - American kids have a bloated
sense of themselves, a new study suggests.
According to the report, in a recent issue of Personality
and Social Psychology Review, self-esteem among America's youth
in general and college students in particular has been on the
rise for the past 30 years. Meantime, societal indicators that
these feelings are warranted, such as higher SAT scores and
lower rates of teen pregnancy, have not kept pace with
attitudes.
To be sure, there is nothing wrong with feeling good about
oneself. People with a healthy dose of self-esteem are more
satisfied with life and are less likely to suffer from anxiety
or depression, the authors note.
But self-esteem based on nothing can set people up for
disappointment, Dr. Jean Twenge of San Diego State University
in California said in an interview with Reuters Health.
"They may also feel that the world owes them something,"
she added.
Twenge blames the trend on the self-esteem movement in
schools, which teaches children slogans and affirmations such
as "I am lovable and capable."
However, "it is more important that a child actually
accomplishes something than that he or she have high
self-esteem," she said. "Once a child accomplishes something,
self-esteem will follow naturally. Children should be praised,
but only when the praise has a basis in fact."
Among younger children, declining divorce, unemployment and
crime rates were found to correlate with higher self-esteem.
Under these circumstances, Twenge and her colleagues suggest,
children grow up feeling more connected and may feel better
about themselves because their parents are able to spend more
time with them and can provide a better environment.
"The culture we create has an impact on our children's
feelings about themselves," Twenge said. "Based on these
results, it is more important to change the larger society by
lowering crime rates and divorce rates than to spend energy and
dollars on programs designed to increase children's
self-esteem," she and her colleagues write.
The results are based on an analysis of hundreds of
different studies on self-esteem conducted between 1965 and
1994. The studies included more than 105,000 children and young
adults.
The findings also challenge the notion that girls'
self-esteem suffers more than boys' self-esteem during
adolescence. In junior high school, self-esteem was found to
deteriorate at similar rates. A rebound was noted among both
groups in high school, although boys' self-esteem was found to
recover more quickly that of girls. The gap appears to narrow
in college, however.
SOURCE: Personality and Social Psychology Review 2001
November. |