November
19, 1999
Web posted at: 9:25 AM EST (1425 GMT)
SACRAMENTO, California (AP) -- When Elizabeth and
Dwayne Stearns first met Johnny, he was 14 months
old, underweight and had a blank expression on
his face. He was wearing dirty clothes and didn't
have a single toy.
"I
just cried," says Mrs. Stearns, 30. "I
knew this was going to be our boy, our son."
That
will happen Saturday, when the active toddler,
who turns 3 next week, will officially become
part of her family. More than 100 other
prospective parents will share the feeling, as
Sacramento County holds its second Adoption Day.
The
program was started to help the county deal with
a backlog of cases. But it has turned into a
celebration for families adopting children,
organizer Bill Fusor said.
"Normally,
they do the adoptions in courts, coming in
through felons and everything else in criminal
courts, so it didn't really celebrate
adoption," said Fusor, executive director of
the Lilliput Children's Service, a Sacramento
adoption agency. "When the kids see 100
other kids getting adopted, they don't feel quite
so isolated."
Fusor
patterned the event after Los Angeles County's
Adoption Day, which finalized more than 300
adoptions in one day. He added that November is
National Adoption Month -- designed to raise
awareness of adoption.
Nationally,
the trend toward large-scale adoption ceremonies
is growing, says Michael Kharfen, a spokesman for
the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.
Hundreds
of family members and friends attended last
year's event in Sacramento. Nearly one-third of
Sacramento County's 400 adoptions last year took
place at the ceremony, with 127 adoptions
finalized in one day, Fusor said.
Court
changes have reduced the backlog since then and
the event is now more of a celebration, he says.
"Some
had 15 or 20 people with them, some carried
signs. The kids, of course, are dressed to the
nines," Fusor says. "In one family, the
kids were all in tuxedos."
The
children who will be adopted Saturday were put in
foster care after being removed from their birth
parents due to neglect or abuse, said Jim Perry,
branch manager for the family relations court.
Mrs.
Stearns said Johnny was abandoned in a motel room
by his birth mother when he was 8 months old,
then placed in a foster home where he was left in
a playpen most of the time.
Now,
"he's happy, vocal, interested in
everything," she says proudly. "He
loves cars, trucks, trains and other kids. He's
all boy."
The
Stearns are adopting him even though they could
have had their own children and already have a
biological daughter.
"We
wanted to save one from the system and pick a
child that normally wouldn't be picked,"
Mrs. Stearns said. "There's so many children
out there."
Fusor
hopes such attitudes catch on, and eventually
lead to a statewide Adoption Day.
"Wouldn't
that be neat?" Fusor asked. "To have
over 1,000 kids adopted on the same day."
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