| Mr. Chairman, Your
Excellencies, distinguished guests,Ladies and
gentlemen, I feel truly
privileged to be called upon to address this
distinguished gathering today. For the past few
months we have been getting some encouraging
information about the Brigham Young University
and the activities of its various entities,
notably the Centre for the Preservation of
Ancient Religions, and, of course, more recently,
the NGO Family Voice which has taken the
commendable initiative of sponsoring this World
Family Policy forum this week. In fact, not long
ago, your distinguished director, Ms Kathryn
Balinforth, had almost caught us by the neck when
she lobbied very persuasively about some
noteworthy elements in United Nations draft
resolutions on the issues of Youth and of human
rights. And it has been a pleasure to attend to
these legitimate and mutually felt concerns in
whatever manner possible.
At
today's session it is my privilege to shed light,
and share thoughts, on the question of
"Strategies for Increasing Support for the
Family in the technical cooperation programmes of
international organizations. I imagine I was
identified for this chore because of my past and
current association with two of the World's
largest intergovernmental organizations- the
United Nations Organization, which I served for
thirty three years in different parts of the
World, principally in the economic and social
developmental spheres, and the Organization of
the Islamic Conference (OIC) which I have the
honor to serve presently, at its Permanent
Observer Mission to the United Nations in New
York. I am glad to say that the Permanent
Observer of the OIC, His Excellency Ambassador
Mokhtar Lamani, my senior colleague, mentor and
boss is also with us here today, demonstrating
the value he personally attaches to the concept
of family by having his wonderful Lady, Madam
Lamani by his side.
Mr.
Chairman,
As
we glide into the substance of our discussion, it
would be relevant to recall that in accordance
with common beliefs, at least among the followers
of the three major heavenly religions, namely
Islam, Christianity and Judaism, the homo
sapian's dissension on earth commenced in a
family environment. Both Adam and Eve came from
heaven to earth, together, as man and wife and,
subsequently, with their offsprings, they laid
down the foundation of the family such as it
universally remains in practice today. Yes, I am
conscious of the fact that some variations, even
deviations in the family's structure are now
being tried by those who want to venture into
man-made alternatives. But the structure that
came with Adam and Eve was no man-made experiment
but Godsent prescription for the development
and progress of the human society on earth.
The
purpose of going into this aspect, Mr. Chairman,
was to remind ourselves of the fact that the
basic structure of the family- husband, wife and
children- has its historical and sociological
origin in the birth of the human society itself.
That the basic family structure has expanded over
time from the nuclear to the extended unit, and
then into homesteads, villages, towns, cities and
countries, is something that is also a historical
and sociological fact and universally applicable
to all forms of human settlements in our World
today.
The
family constitutes the basic social unit of
society where the role of the individual
vis-a-vis others is established for the first
time; where the rights and obligations are
conferred upon the individual also for the first
time. The process of learning comes into play and
both the acquisition of knowledge and experience
go into the formation of character, constituting
the early steps towards the grooming of not only
decent and dependable members of the family but
also of cooperative and productive members of
society. This early process of learning becomes
the springboard for future roles of leadership
first within the family and later on in social
and professional spheres outside the family. The
family, then, is the basic and delicate unit of
society upon whom the quality and strength of the
whole society rests. Strengthen the family and
the society will grow stronger. Weaken the family
and the opposite would happen to society. Educate
the family, and the society will emerge
culturally advanced and imaginative. Provide
medical and health facilities to the family and
the society will be healthier and productive.
Improve the family's environment and the society
will emerge free of tensions and attendant social
ills. Conversely, tamper with decent family
values, and the society will experience social
jolts. And experiment with dangerous alternative
styles and structures in family and the society
will go down tumbling in a downward spiral.
At
this stage in my presentation, I would turn,
momentarily, to religion since I find its stand
on the issue of family quite consistent with the
analysis. A story in the holy Quran, which I
believe is common to the holy Bible and the holy
Torah, is about Prophet Lut whose nation had
gotten addicted to an alternative life style. God
Almighty, after giving them every chance to
repent, destroyed them with a heavy shower of
stones. Even Prophet Lut's wife, who apparently
had secretly indulged into that practice, was not
spared. And the society was thus cleansed of what
the Almighty regarded as a social menace. While I
would not be able to prescribe the same treatment
for those who are indulging in similar life
styles in some places in the World today, I
would, nevertheless, point out the societal
dangers that are inherent in arbitrarily
departing from the delicate path of nature in
pursuing family lives. I believe we owe it to the
present and future generations to attend to the
issue with the seriousness this deserves so that
the family, as the basic unit for the formation
of character, and the foundation stone of healthy
societal progress, may be protected from the
dangers that are inherent in such deviations.
The
issue of family is now being widely recognized as
a factor in the development process; a fact that
is reflected in national development plans and
programmes of technical cooperation of
intergovernmental organizations, regional and
global financial institutions and bilateral
donors. Yet, it suffers frequently from a lack of
clarity and direction, inadequacy of resources
and ad hoc prioritizations. Sometimes, the
necessity to distribute scarce resources among
competing sectoral interests restrict the ability
of planners to direct the required levels of
inputs towards education, housing, health,
rehabilitation of the handicapped, employment
etc. On the other hand, the construction of
prestigious infra-structures and projects of
urban, as distinct from rural, development, not
to mention defense expenditures, often claim the
bulk of the resources of national budgets with
little left for addressing social needs; and the
family remains the sufferer. An example from
personal experience may be shared with you.
As
the Resident Representative of the United Nations
Development Programme in an African country, I
was called upon to assist the Government in
building an industrial estate. The feasibility
study had been promising and a project to
construct the industrial estate had been given
high national priority. Even a major bilateral
donor was prepared to support with additional
financing. The Industrial Estate emerged in
record time with the necessary infrastructure,
factory shells, link roads, water supply,
electricity and telephones. Foreign and domestic
investors soon occupied the factory spaces. What
were missing were workers' houses, schools, a
hospital and day-care centers for working
mothers. The capital loans had made no provisions
for these services, nor were there any provisions
made for the recurrent expenditures that these
services, when established by some means, would
accrue. The result was hardships for workers who
had to travel from long distances to come to work
in the newly constructed factories. At one point
an investor complained to me about lack of
punctuality and unreliability of the workers
although he admitted that there were handicaps
for them and their families. It was later
realized, during an evaluation exercise, that the
planning had been hasty and better results would
have been realized from earlier attention to the
provision of housing, schools, health clinic etc.
And an important lesson was learnt.
These
and other considerations have figured in the
objectives that emerged from the United Nations
International Year of the Family in 1995. As a
result, the role and interest of the family have
appeared in the advocacy statements and
declaration of the various thematic conferences
held in the nineties, notably the World Summit
for Children; the UN Conference on Environment
and Development; the World Conference on Human
Fights; the International Conference on
Population and Development; the World Summit for
Social Development, the Fourth World Conference
on Women and Habitat 11. All of them have
contained recommendations and provisions related
to family issues that are seen as integral
components of development.
Similar
approaches are being considered in the OIC and
its specialized and affiliated institutions,
notably the Islamic Development Bank, the
Statistical, Economic and Social Research and
Training Centre for Islamic Countries, and the
Islamic Education, Scientific and Cultural
Organization, all of whom are developing
programmes of technical cooperation for, and
among, the OIC member States in different spheres
of economic and social development. In these
programmes particular attention is being devoted
to the development of human resources and, in
that context, to the issue of the family and its
needs in the whole development process.
I
should add here that in the race for enhanced
quality of life, standards of expectations are
rising even in countries that are still in rather
earlier stages of development, giving way to
greater pressures on dwindling resources. In
appreciation of this anomaly, an exhausted
planner was heard the other day saying
"keeping peace in the family now requires
patience, love, understanding and at least two
television sets". While this may not be
quite true of the level of expectations in many
developing countries at this time, the
information highway and particularly the internet
and CNN factors, may turn out to be more
influential and precursors of revolutions of
rising expectations as we move toward the gateway
to the next millennium. A great deal of work,
therefore, has to be done to rationalize,
prioritize and address the needs of the family in
programmes of social and economic development at
the national, regional and global levels. Towards
that goal, the role of international
organizations in catalizing national efforts will
remain crucial, requiring renewed strategies to
enhance the support for the family in their
respective technical cooperation programmes. A
few thoughts in this direction would be the
following:
First:
it would be important to direct energies and
resources towards national capacity building
efforts so that the "dependency
syndrome" that is becoming the fashion, and
a cause of increasing donor fatigue, may give way
to self-reliance in development matters.
Second:
development programmes and projects should
increasingly remain "people and family
centered" rather than merely sectoral target
oriented. This will direct the benefits of
development, to people and families, and thus to
humanity-at-large, rather than to the limited
interest groups that have been clever and
influential enough to clinch the advantages.
Third: age old family
values and religious and communal practices that
have traditionally kept the nuclear family
together, and the extended family closer, need to
be better understood, and, as far as possible,
institutionalized and absorbed in modern support
structures as necessary adjuncts to governmental
and societal machinisms for family support. This
will revive and reinforce the human and humane
elements in family support activity, something
that is being otherwise lost in the maze of
bureaucratic procedures and entitlement based
actions, and
Fourth: there should
be accelerated dissemination and exchange of
ideas and experiences on family issues, and
reinforced networking with concerned partners in
governments and societal institutions, so that
ideas may be shared, and enlightenment may be
gained on ways to strengthen family-centered
components of policies and programmes as part of
an integrated, comprehensive approach to
development.
These, Mr. Chairman,
have been some random attempts to delve into the
issues that are before us today. What I have
briefly presented is mere food for thought.
Thank you very much
for your attention. I am pleased and honored to
be with you today.
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