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Listening to Children


Here is something that we learn from Dr Denis Waitley through his book "Seeds of Greatness" which we found to be very true and applicable in our effort of having a Quality Time with our son Ryan.

As parents the greatest gift of all to our children is our quality time. In this fast moving world, parents tend to be busy with their career an preoccupied with our daily works. Our relationship with our children has been referred to as "The Seven-Minutes-Per-week Syndrome." Children spend more time watching television than they do communicating with their parents or acquiring an education.

Intimacy, touching, communicating, all takes time. The most precious moments we can ever spend with our children are those moments just before they go to sleep at night. Many activities are going on in the normal family in the early evening. These is dinner, homework, chores, computer games, finances, meetings, television, phone calls, visitors, friends and pets, just to name a few. Little wonder that the average parents spend less than seven minutes each week alone with each child, individually at a time when each one is receptive. Here is a poem that Dr. Denis Waitley wrote which we found very awakening.
  • Take a Moment to Listen

    Take a moment to listen
    To what your children are trying to say;
    Listen today, whatever you do
    Or they won't be there to listen to you.

    Listen to their problems, listen for their needs,
    Praise their smallest triumphs, praise their smallest deeds;
    Tolerate their chatter, amplify their laughter,
    Find out what's the matter, find out what they're after.

    But tell them that you love them, every single night
    And though you scold them, be sure you hold them;
    Tell them "Everything's all right;
    tomorrow's looking bright!"

    Take a moment to listen today
    To what your children are trying to say;
    Listen today, whatever you do
    And they will come back to listen to you

    - Dr Denis Waitley -

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