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can learn so much from children. And most of us
have the good fortune to get to be closely
reacquainted with the magic of childhood twenty
or thirty years after we were children. If our
children then have children, we get another
lesson some years further down the track. It
would seem that many parents see the teaching
process as a one way street. Parents can also do
well to spend more time learning from their
children and less time teaching.
Children know a lot more about having a good
time than most adults. Children know how to
laugh. They don't need much to laugh at.
Sometimes they don't need anything at all. They
laugh because it feels good. Did you get your
quota of laughs today?
They are delightfully spontaneous. Children
don't analyse and work everything out. They are
just busy "being". Whatever we meet
grown ups who are so spontaneous, we tend to
treasure them also. Let's do less thinking and
more responding.
Children are eternally fascinated. They are
curious. Everything is a new exciting experience,
to be absorbed. Adults switched off. Many of us
have forgotten what a magic place this planet is.
Children are also very accepting. They are
without prejudice. Rich or poor or black or
white, you are OK. A child is not your religion
or your politics.
Kids have enormous resilience and
determination. If they want, they don't quit.
Their persistence is really something to be
admired, as well as endured. Children just keep
going for it. When you learned to walk, you kept
at it and kept at it. You fall over and got up.
Finally you learned to walk! Do you still exhibit
that kind of determination?
In a nutshell - Spend time with
children. Learn more about laughter, spontaneity,
curiosity, acceptance, resilience, trust,
determination, and your imagination. They are
here to teach us!
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