In this brief contribution I try to
bring together the symptoms of decay among which
the crisis of the family is the most profound but
is not the only one. In every society the family
is the center-piece of social stability and
change, the Archimedean lever from which the
social structure can be manipulated for good and
evil. Family life is in a natural fusion with
society, religion, myth, law, and culture; the
family is also the basic mechanism which directs
economic life and productivity, social mobility,
and division into social classes; it is also the
paradigm for the life of culture.
Thus whoever undertakes the
radical transformation of society must first
elaborate a family-model opening on a new
society. He must control the family: its
structure, its partnership, its mobility or
stationary character, the role of parents and
children. The means of restructuring the family
arena central surveillance, demographic
manipulation, the sexual education of the
childand of course the economic pressure.
In regard to the latter, modern industrial
society claims the power of a wider
structuralization than the previous models which
were paternalistic, feudal, Christian, or
bourgeois. Industrial society which regulates
production and distribution cannot afford
incalculability on any level; in its conception
the family must be planned, the number of members
regulated, their ambitions guided and channeled.
The manipulative project for the
family, thus for the demographic calculus,
influences and determines the entire society. The
social engineer targets the family in order to
create a new society down to its precise
elementsa kind of definitive version of
family coexistence, just as industrial society as
such is also regarded as the final stage of
mankinds evolution. The end of history.
Technological society thus
prescribes the family structure more severely and
more "mathematically" than any previous
model where spontaneity and self-determination
(by the family unit) played a much greater role,
and where the family was guided by such factors
as religion, morality, tradition, inheritance,
respect of natural ties. Today (late 20th
century), when mechanical thinking prevails and
the collective idea1 narrows the family options,
the social engineering aims at the strict
regulation of the family for fear that too much
freedom and spontaneity may jeopardize
societys precise functioning. Hence there
appear such mechanisms on the family level as
central control, legal abortion, bio-genetic
experimentation, sperm banks, contractual
relationship between parents and children, and
school curriculum whose task is to condition
children according to industrial societys
requirements, nothing beyond.
While the professed goal is,
among others, the "well-being of the
family," it is obvious that the control
increasingly gained over society diminishes the
significance and uniqueness of the family model.
Mankinds alleged objective points today to
the mechanical ideal to which the family too is
sacrificed in the name of an ultimate in history.
The consequence is the near suppression of
natural forces and aspirations, so that parents
are considered from the industrial-economic point
of view: reduction of the number of children
below the desirable threshold, vast program of
abortion, preference at conception for this or
that sex, sperm banks for the production of
"geniuses," sex education encouraging a
hedonistic and controlled view which helps bypass
the birth of spontaneously conceived children.
The result is that in the name of a
"scientifically directed" mankind,
social engineering eliminates such considerations
from family life as religious belief, moral
imperative, parental function based on love, the
pleasure of having a large family. Instead, the
family is reduced to molecular components and
contractual partnership and is increasingly
controlled by what is called "science."
Totalitarian societies are of
course easiest to manipulate, but they may be
said to present the naked model of what other
industrial societies also adopt, even if with
more hesitancy and attention to other
considerations, called humanistic or
humanitarian. In China under Mao, supervisors of
the countryside separated husbands from wives,
lodged them in different barracks, and organized
collective visits on certain days, so as to
produce the necessary number of children. Later,
even after Maos death, laws regulated the
number of children allowed to be born; the rest
were aborted and utilized in the substitution of
organs or for industrial purposes. One
consequence was that families murdered their
newly born girls, granting life to boys only.
Such a procedure is well-known in Western
democracies, too; it is a common feature of
modern industrial society and its ideology of
absolute, mechanical supervision over family, the
birth of children, the social model, and
sexualization. The little regard in which the
family is held can be ascertained when
legislation admits marriages between members of
the some sex; it shows the antifamily
orientation, the purely mechanical role of the
parents in "founding" the family, the
adoption of children by homosexual couples, and
the dissolution of natural relationships. Social
engineers and ideologues in the Soviet Union used
to complain that all the "enlightened"
efforts to modernize the family failed on the
grandmothers resistance who taught the
children that there is a God, moral commandment,
good and evil, and other superstitions weakening
the childs Soviet loyalty. Some critics
attribute the Soviet collapse to the
"subversive" influence of the older
generation, active within the family while the
parents were working throughout the day.
All this is manifest in Western
society, too, since control over technological
society implies mechanization of the human
response, its predictability, its schematization.
In purporting as naturalness, freedom, and
spontaneity, but also the attraction of
transcendence, are removed from individual and
community existence, two factors play roles in
the demographic situation. One is that so-called
socioeconomic imperatives tend to limit the
number of children, as it is obvious when we
compare the industrially developed with the
so-called "archaic" societies. In the
latter there is an abundance of births, in spite
of Western propaganda of cutting fertility by
birth control, operations, the distribution of
paltry presents in the Gandhi familys
India, for example, to those who undergo
sterilization. In developed societies where the
fear of scarcity and the drive to consume have
become traumatic, birth control has become a
social must, and social ethics regards the large
family as antisocial, even obscene.
Comparisons may be heard by
fashionable young women that the fetus is like a
cancerous growth in the female body. And another
common argument is the feminist claim that
womens rights include free and legal, even
collectively funded, abortion. In short, the new
social value is directed, 1ike in the case of the
Gnostics two millennia agothen again of the
A1bigentian heretics in the south of
Franceagainst human reproduction. The
consequence is the tragic multiplication of aging
populations in Western countriesa sure sign
of decadence and of the drive to migrate by other
races: first in the quest for jobs, then for
territorial conquest.
We thus face a deconstructed
family, in which not only industrial/social
excesses, but also the secularization of life and
its values, play a decisive role. Conceiving
offspring is one of the basic realities of life,
and even though human beings possess in this
respect a much wider choice than animals and
plants, they too are ordered according to this
basic requirement of existence. If the process is
interrupted at certain historical moments, the
reason is either an aggressive annihilation by
conquest, massacre and genocide, or the collapse
of the will to live in a given community. Such a
collapse seems to have spread over much of
Western mankind, and the modern ideology finds
innumerable pretexts to justify it, even to
regard it as a positive sign. We have tried above
to list the responsible factors; let us summarize
them, although we must admit that what we call
the "demographic implosion" is finally
as inexplicable a phenomenon as are the other
great movements of history.
Statistics, questionnaires, and
other sociological studies do not present an
adequate answer; they are stamped by the modern
mentality which shuns natural impulses, on the
one hand, and depreciate spiritual loyalties, on
the other. In the middle there is the tendency to
regard society as struggling for absolute
autonomy, self-regulation, individual rights.
From such expectations there follows the modern
imperative to work out short-lived satisfactions,
notably in the domain of instant happiness: sex
exclusively for pleasure, the taking of drugs,
excesses of ideological militancy, limitless
pornography, the grotesqueries of a certain
cultural achievement. When the Bulgarian
"artist" Cristo wraps the great
monuments of the past (bridges, palaces) in
nylon, with authorization by the local
government, we find just another manifestation of
a pure arbitrariness which is present also in the
refusal to have children, legalized marriage, and
laws protecting the family. We call all these
phenomena by the name modernity, emancipation,
human rights, pursuit of happiness, when in fact
we face the collapse of cultureand beyond a
vast unknown.
It is questionable whether the
adequate response can be given by an entire
community. The latters social essence is
inertia; it is commended primarily by routine.
This was true in the age of faith and its social
moves and gestures, it was true in the age of the
bourgeoisie, and it is true again under the
impact of technology and the expectations
attached to it. Waiting for collectivities and
for governments to act in defiance of the
prevailing cultural habits is to underestimate
the latters opportunism and commitment to
the world-democratic structure in the state of
gradual emergence. Lets bear in mind also
that reforms today are as hard to perform as
ever; responsibilities are passed on to heavy
social mechanisms hiding behind the false
efficacy of slogans. We believe in a gigantic
machine.
The response to the tragedy of
demographic implosion can only be given by the
relentless insistence and counter-practice of
families and small groups. One may, of course,
engage in lobbying at international organizations
and congresses, and some recent events have
demonstrated the benefits of such a mobilization.
Yet these moves are underlined and justified by
the decision of families which try to reverse the
trend, welcome children, demand the protection
and support of the state. There may, of course,
come a moment in which Western nations, following
the Chinese example, curtail birth and officially
impose penalties in proportion of
"extra" children. While this may or may
not happen, families ought to act according to
their deepest desire with regard to giving birth
to offspring. The resulting population growth
would oblige governments to build more housing,
multiply work opportunities, provide for large
families. The crisis of the family is perhaps the
only form of social decay which may be arrested
and eventually reversed by sheer human will.
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